'Work-life balance’ has become a popular term over the past few years, and it's an excellent concept – once we've figured out what it means and how to apply it to our life!
Essentially, good work-life balance means we have harmony between the various different aspects of our life. The benefits gained from each area support and strengthen the others; we feel in control, and comfortable that we are achieving what we want and need to. Often-times, though, our personal and work lives can feel at odds with each other – like there’s just not enough time to do everything we need to do – and at least one side starts to suffer. That’s when taking a look at our work-life balance is a good idea. Left unchecked, poor balance in our lives can cause stress; and too much stress is never going to be good for our mental health and wellbeing.
While the word ‘balance’ often brings up an image of something that is evenly weighted on both sides, that doesn’t necessarily apply to work-life balance. The ideal is what feels right for you.
Below, we have some work-life balance ideas to get you started. You might like to do this exercise with others (whānau, matavuvale, family, colleagues) so that you can discuss the points and encourage one another, but as you work your way through, remember that everyone’s sense of balance is unique, so don’t be tempted to compare your answers with someone else’s.
Figure out your priorities
Make the time to sit down and really think about what you want. For example; what is important to you, what do you value? How to you want to be spending your time? How do you want to feel, and what things make you feel that way? Consider your passions and interests – what makes you feel alive?
Firstly, make your list without critiquing it – capture everything you can think of. Then go back through your list and highlight the ones you think are your top priorities (start off with a maximum of around six).
Do a time study
Now that you have a list of what your priorities are, you’ll want to have a look at how much time you actually spend on them. For a minimum of a week, take a note of exactly how you spend your time. At the end of that time, take a look at where your time went. How much was spent on the things that fall under your six biggest priorities? If there’s good alignment between what matters to you and the things you did, that’s awesome! If it feels like there was very little alignment at all, don’t be too disheartened – it’s only when you identify there is an issue that you can do something about it.
Here’s some ideas to consider. Feel free to add your own – you know yourself best!
Hopefully these ideas have prompted some of your own and you’re already thinking about what else you can do to take control over your time and create more balance in your life!
As a next step, you might find it helpful to carry out our easy-and-enlightening exercise, Do you have balance in your life?